Montessori & Positive Discipline Step by Step

  Remember: this is the moment when we are going to nurture and shape the brain of our child. Did you know that the tantrum, is a desired and expected behavior in child development, since it corresponds to the brain development of our little one. Daniel Siegel tells us that, children are psychocorporal, that is to say that experiences and emotions are lived through the body. When we are facing an emotional overflow of our little one, let us remember that it is simply due to evolutionary traits that the brain needs to express discomfort. We must understand that our children do the best they can with what they have. This is a phrase that I repeat to myself over and over again, because it helps me to have more empathy with the behavior of our little ones. Let's understand that they behave that way because it is the way the nervous system reacts. Sure you have already read a lot about tantrums. But you have not been able to find the clear tools to help you, manage that moment of emotio

The way to raise children changed. From a traditional education with blows and mistreatment, to parents who want to do things differently. They have more resources and are more conscious. If we ask our grandmothers or even our parents they will tell us stories of submission and obedience. Those stories were normal in environments such as school and at home. Physical punishment or cursing were the answer to the unwanted behavior.  We are currently facing another social dynamic where women have stopped being submissive and obedient. Schools have stopped giving physical punishment and both parents play a very important role in raising children. We are facing a generation who wants to do things differently. Although physical punishment has immediate effects, since we manage to stop our child's behavior, it has no long-term effects.  We DO NOT teach our little ones any life skills. Our job as a parent is to teach them skills to give them enough tools so that when they grow up they know